CHILDREN OF THE CORN
What do you think of Asian girls who date “out” - meaning Asian girls who date outside of their race? Do you care? Does it bother you? Is she a “sell-out”? Do you get angry? Isn’t it even a big deal? I’ll give you an example: This one Asian girl told me that when she was dating white and black guys, wherever she went, other Asian guys would give her looks and stare and consequently, make her feel very self-conscious. Is this right? Should she expect this? I feel some Asian guys do have a problem with Asian girls who date white or black guys. Some do make judgement calls and even label her as something not too favorable. I know that if a Korean girl was dating or married to a black guy in Seoul, she’d get shunned from society to a certain degree and she’d get scrutinized. Do some Asian guys feel they’re being betrayed by her because she’s now with “them” - the dominant white society? Do you feel she may be ashamed to be Asian and wants to be accepted by the white society? Do you judge her? Tell me if you care and why…
1 comment:
Wow was the first thing that came to mind when I read your post! Fuck it I'll jump in feet first! I strongly believe that Asian Males do have a problem with Asian Females dating outside the race for numerous reasons! The first and foremost is that the real fine Asian females won't give a Asian male a fair shake because
the standard of being a strong Asian Male is never represented in main stream media it's really comical and unfortunate. We are never seen as strong, sexual take charge kind of men which is fucked up and I believe it carries over in mainstream society.
Peep this if I saw a Asian female with fake blue eyes and dyed blond hair sporting a tan you best believe that I view her as a sell out! She looks like she hates herself when she does all that.
This whole standard idea of beauty in general is fucked up! Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Ms. magazine etc are force feeding the public what beauty is which 99.9% of the time is blonde hair, blue eyes!
Same for the men's magazine's so until all media accepts that Asian males can be sexual, strong, etc. I believe that we will never get a fair shake which is so fucked up but hey I've been fighting this battle for 40 years! I'm used to it!
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